To the girl who will one day date the man I loved
Dear girlfriend,
Forgive me for loathing you at first. For I am just a human.
I don't know who you are but I hope that you and him will get the happiness
that both of you deserve. Know that he has his moments, but know that he is
content just knowing that you are there for him. I am still letting the
relationship go, I hope I could, by the time you read this or by the time you
meet him. For he was the first man I have learnt to love and the first man I
have learnt to let go. His parents are great and they are kind. His mom will
definitely love you, just as how she loves her own daughter. His father is
funny and his brother is intelligent. Rest assured that you will never run out
of things to debate with them. In a good way of course. I like to believe that
I could make him happy and he could do the same for me but circumstances were
not in our favour. Or maybe rather, he was just not the one for me, but I never
denied the fact that for a moment I did love him and now it’s your turn, to
make him happy and laugh. He loves outdoor activities and I hope you do too,
just so you can accompany him. He loves music and so I hope you both can sing
along to Beatles songs in the car together. He has a different goal than most
people but I hope you will support him no matter what. He loves travelling and
I hope you do too just so could accompany him.
But maybe, maybe you will have a different adventure with him. Who
knows? Who am I to voice out my hopes of your relationship. Therefore, I shall
stop.
Oh don’t worry about your parents not liking him, because my
mom loved him instantly when she first met him. Maybe I will never meet you in
real life. Don't worry, even if one day we meet, I would still treat you with
respect. I don't have a lot to say but I do wish you and him the best. If one
day we meet, I hope that I could genuinely be happy for you, whoever you are.
Allow me to learn to love you better.
