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Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Detachment

Hi guys!

So guess who's back? Throws confetti to myself. Yay. Im back and enjoying every second of the semester break.

Aside from that, everything has been great. And slowly getting better. InshaAllah. Anyway, I had recently bought a book called 'Reclaim your heart' written by Yasmin Mogahed


This book talks about detachment. Detachment from the dunya and that your love for Allah SWT should be bigger than any creature or material things in this dunya. There are certain things, that I don't agree with the author, but I cant seem to recall what it is. Well, but the point is, that, this is a really good book, especially if you're recovering from a heart break or if you have lost someone and you're trying to mend that beautiful heart of yours. winks*

I needed this book. In all honesty, I had a hard time, knowing that Akid aka bestfriend/ boyfriend is going abroad for 5 years. 5 GOOD YEARS. But honestly, I think after loads of reflection. I am starting to accept it. God knows, why we didnt meet earlier?! But, im so glad that we did cross our path after all. Nope, I was not the girl who cries every night thinking that i'd be 'single' for 5 years. Ha! Now, puts on shades* where are my girl friends? Just kidding.

I realized that us humans, when we give our hearts to one person or when we love something so much, we forget. That actually, the one that we should love the MOST is Allah SWT. Reminding myself of this concept, made me accept and somehow I was at peace with myself because when you love the Creator the most, there's nothing that you can't do and like the author says you will never experience heart break. Well you will, but you wouldnt feel the loss too much because you know, whoever and whatever goods that come your way are gifts that came from the Creator and you also learn to be grateful.

All in all, I recommend this book to everyone. Regardless, if you're naturally a happy person or if you're in a state of hardship.

Until then,
Goodnight everyone.